Double Standard

Sometimes I wonder why is there a double standard for certain things. Why can men do one thing and expect their girlfriend or female figure that’s in their lives to be ok with it? Why when women do certain things they get judged at the highest level? In reality I believe that women and men can do the same exact thing and women can actually pull it off better than a man can. For instance, when you think about it if a man is cheating they are so much sloppier with hiding their affair but with women they are smarter with hiding their affair. Cheating isn’t good with either sex, but with a male they feel like they can do whatever they want whenever they want and no one can feel some type of way about it but say a female did something to them they will bitch and scream about it for what feels like a lifetime. Another thing that bothers me with this generation today is the fact, a male can cheat and get praised and can play the victim when his girlfriend finds out but when a girl cheats she gets judged by females and males in the worst factor. A guy can have multiple excuses and his girlfriend will forgive him multiple times. When a girl has an actual reason behind her actions, it’s always “she’s just playing the victim, he didn’t deserve that”. Ok so a female deserves to be disrespected, neglected, and treated terribly? A females have this bone in their body that allows them to care so much for someone and will continuously keep faith that they will become better. With men it seems as if they have one caring strands once you break it they just don’t care anymore after one mistake, they can never just forgive you and move forward instead they’ll hold it either against you or close to their to the point they begin to lose interest in you or begin to change into a completely different person. I feel if a man actually thought like “why did she do this?” or “how did we get to the point we’re at?” they’ll understand what needs to be changed and what needs to be adjusted to make the relationship work. Men think that they are always right, never wrong. Men hold things in, instead of talking and resolving the issue. It’s like women wear their hearts on their sleeves and men don’t. Don’t get me wrong this isn’t referring to all men or women because all men and women are different in so many factors but for the most part women care so much more than men and we can talk about our feelings and get to a solution while men pretend not to care and can never talk about their feelings but in reality they’re extremely broken up about the incident. Maybe women are too emotional, or maybe men just are emotionless, either way one thing should be judged the same no matter who is doing it in my opinion.

xoxo me’

Elevate yourself to be better

In the world we live in today, we look at moving up to higher things as a good thing no matter if it’s a job, or a class. When I hear of the world elevate I think of becoming a Plastic Surgeon. That is the thing I want more than anything in this world, I’ll never allow something to stand in my way. When you allow yourself to strive for higher accomplishments and success you allow yourself to feel great as a person. Moving onto better things is a great accomplishment and will make you a step closer to you getting to your goal. Bring yourself to push through any obstacle, allow yourself to strive to be on top, and don’t be afraid to fail that’ll just hold you back. Fear leads to failure, you’ll never reach success if you allow every fear you have to hold you back, you must push through to reach your success. Allow nothing to stand in your way, elevate yourself to get into a higher position. Once you reach success it is breath taking, as long as you hold back you will never reach your full potential. Elevate to higher positions, strive to success.

xoxo me’

via Daily Prompt: Elevate

First time blogging

Hi,

My name is Me’ short for Me’lisa, my blog will be about just about anything and everything. Nothing’s off limits. I want you guys to be able to ask me things or give me discussion topics and I’ll post my answers or my feelings on the particular topic you wanted me to talk about. I am very opinionated, I love to speak on situations and how they have made me react whether it is good or bad. I want my blog to be able to help someone one day with a similar problem or just give them some inspiration. Through my life I just about been through a million things from illness to school to boys. I hope you enjoy and follow me on my blogging journey.

Xoxo Me’